"Where can I Find My Wife?" - Approach2link Answers

Approach2link Answers the Question: Where Can I Find A Wife?

An Approach2link twitter follower asks: "How can I find my wife?" I tried my best to answer him right away with the following posts and promised him I would give him more of my thoughts in a blog post. So here it is...

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Such things as being shy and not having opportunities to meet people are reasons why it's hard to find someone. However, once you have some strategies to overcome shyness and attend places or events that create approachable opportunities then you are well on your way to finding yourself a mate. 

Sometimes it may seem hard when you are single but here are some suggestions that will make it much easier. The following are the tips I suggested on twitter with a more detailed explanation.

1. Go to Places that Exemplifies Your Interests:  Doing such an act is perfect because not only will you find someone who likes what you like but you will have something to talk about for your conversation starter.  The example I gave on twitter had to do with Art.  If you like art, you can go to an Art museum.  There you may find a young lady who likes art just like you.  As you see her view an art piece you can approach her by mentioning something about it.  From there you can introduce yourself and ask for her name.  If things go well, you can possible continue browsing the art museum together.  In addition to going to a place, you can take a class that sparks your interests.  Again you will share the same interest and have something to say but even better is the fact that you will be seeing your classmates once a week.  This is perfect because you will get to know them slowly and by the end of the course you can easily exchange numbers. 

2. Attend Mix and Mingles or Networking Events: One of the reasons why people say they are single is they are not meeting any one.  Well, one great way to meet new people is to attend mix and mingles or networking events.  These events expect you to exchange business/contact information and allow for you to approach as many people as you want easily and naturally.  With this opportunity, it is more likely that you may encounter a few suitable potentials. 

3. Eliminate the Fear of Approaching: People are usually afraid to approach people because they are afraid of rejection.  This is where strategies to overcome your fear will come in handy.  Not everyone will be interested in dating you but when you approach someone in a friendly matter with no intentions to date them then there is no harm done when you approach them.  Try using the GAP method to make approaching someone in a friendly matter easier.  G = Give them a compliment i.e. I like your shoes.  A = Ask a question i.e. Where do you shop? P = Provide and Introduction i.e. By the way, my name is so and so... Stay tuned for a future post that will describe the best situations to use the GAP method. 

4. Consider Your Friends: They say the best marriages are those who were friends first.  I can definitely attest to that for I am a child of parents who were childhood friends and have been married for over 30 years (still counting).  With that being said, try looking among the friends you have.  If you and your friend are really close that says a lot because generally it's difficult for males and females to be strictly platonic friends. 

These four tips are what I consider the major four avenues to the path of towards your wife... These tips can also be applied to finding a husband as well. 

Let me know if you have tried any of these tips and how it goes. 


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